Showing posts with label feminism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feminism. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

The Big Lie

¡Hola! Everybody...
I am tired and tapped out. The following was posted a couple of years ago...

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-=[ The Beauty Myth ]=-

I remember having to take a class on gender and politics during my undergrad years and I really wasn’t feeling it. Not that I didn’t identify with women’s causes, I did, and always have, but a part of me felt that the class had no real relevance for me.
Jeeez, was I ever wrong!

That course would change my worldview in significant ways and would open the door to other avenues to explore academically. I can’t get into all that without losing my friends who have some form of attention deficit, but I will say that I learned a lot in that initial course. Later, I would take more advanced courses and eventually work with two leading female researchers in the field of developmental psychology.

Three works stand out for me during this time. The first, “The Egg and the sperm: How science has constructed a romance based on stereotypical male-female roles,” (Martin, 1991) taught me that medical and scientific research reinforces gender stereotypes by presenting “facts” that reflect social biases about gender. In other words, just because a person puts on a lab coat doesn’t mean they leave their cultural mindset behind. This may not sound like a lot, but it was huge in influencing how we think of research and science. I’ve written about the second work, In a Different Voice by Carol Gilligan (1982), previously. In a Different Voice stood the scientific world on its head and created a revolution.

The next work, The Beauty Myth, by Naomi Wolf (1990) I will address today briefly. Controversial, critically acclaimed, and wildly popular, The Beauty Myth helped usher in what some call the third wave of feminism. I find that its thesis is even more relevant today than it was when it was first published.

After a lot of jerking off and even more reading, what follows is my synopsis of this work. Please! Because I’ve had to simplify and cut down this work, there’s a lot missing. I would strongly recommend it as reading material.

Simply put, Wolf argues (quite successfully) that our culture judges women (and women judge themselves), against an impossible standard of the “Ideal Woman.” Wolf calls this “beauty pornography.”

Magazines are full of images of impossibly underweight models, for example, that are between fifteen and twenty years old. We rarely see a picture of a woman who is not wearing make-up applied by an artist, hair and clothes professionally styled and designed. A professional artist airbrushes all flaws and wrinkles out.

This is a form of social conditioning that keeps women competing against each other in and out of the workplace. In truth, it has been going on for years, but the recent availability of cosmetic surgery encourages a form of female self-loathing and disgust when achievement that standard look is not possible. If you are not tall, thin, and under twenty you have little chance of success, the message goes.

Now, before I get the pat “Well, not me, Eddie… ” comments, let me point out that this is not about you per se. It’s a social issue and before commenting, you have to think about this issue beyond your individual mindset. Personally, I feel the high incidence of eating disorders among all women, and specifically young women, is a direct consequence of the beauty myth.

References

Gilligan, C. (1982). In a different voice: Psychological theory and women's development. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.

Martin, E. (1991). The Egg and the sperm: How science has constructed a romance based on stereotypical male-female roles. Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society, 16(3 ), 485-501.

Wolf, N. (1990). The beauty myth: How images of beauty are used against women. New York: Random House.

Monday, January 26, 2009

The Warrioress Creed

Hola Everybody...
I didn't have time to write today... this is a repost.

I like to say a tribe of fearless women raised me. Women who, while enduring all forms of abuse, still cared for me and offered to me a true template for a warrior creed. They raised me as a “Scholar-Warrior,” but it was their
fearless hearts that blazed a light for my path. And so it went throughout my life: I would be fortunate enough to meet, over and over, women who exemplified spiritual courage in the face of the same hardships.

Though many were beaten, raped, and emotionally and psychologically abused, though they were often stigmatized for daring to speak against these same atrocities, they still managed to face life with their hearts, always willing to give.

It is to all these women, and the countless others, that I offer the following. May you never have to suffer in silence ever again.

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-=[ The Warrioress Creed ]=-

-- by Mirtha Vega


A warrioress...
is honorable;
has strength, determination, and perseverance;
is magical and optimistic;
is wise and powerful;
revels in silence;
can appreciate both inner and outer beauty;
is dedicated to the sacredness in her life;
loves to live fully;
is unwavering in her quest for the infinite;
is respectful;
can commit to those she deems worthy;
can let go of what is no longer useful, or necessary;
is compassionate;
possesses the will to walk away from illusion;
is willing to trust and surrender when appropriate;
has extraordinary vision and clarity;
faces her fears head on;
believes.

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Love,

Eddie

Saturday, December 13, 2008

The Scarlet Woman

¡Hola! Everybody...
Though it looks corny, I’m going to go see the new Clint Eastwood film, Gran Torino. I think that Eastwood’s artistic creativity blossomed in his later years. His Unforgiven, for example, is one of the best of the modern westerns -- definitely in the top ten westerns ever. I hated Million Dollar Baby because I felt the second half of that piece took the easy artistic way out through melodrama - but even there, that first half with him and Morgan Freeman chewing chunks of the scenery, was awesome to watch. Mystic River (based on a book by one of my fave writers, Dennis Lehane) was a
masterpiece with the fantastic Sean Penn leading an ensemble cast expertly directed. White Hunter, Black Heart, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil-- the list goes on.

Or... I’m just looking at the TV box and I forgot that a Puerto Rican Christmas film is finally coming out. Shoot, there’re plenty of White Christmases and even Black Christmases, it’s about time we have a PR Christmas! Nothing Like the Holidays has an all star cast headed by Alfred Molina, John Leguizamo, Elizabeth Peña, and Debra Massing (yes, PRs fawk white people too). My friend, whose cousin Luis Guzman has a part in the movie, tells me it’s a great alternative to the silly mainstream of Four Christmases.

I love the following poem...

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-=[ Radical Femme ]=-


I stand five-foot-ten in my six-inch heels,
My new red hair is blazing in the sun.
Oh my sisters,
Spare me your judgments.

Let me tell you:
We are violated by those
Who would contain our greatest spirits and
Confine our largest passions
Into the small image of chastity.
We are raped by those
Who would have us believe that
Nice girls don't like sex.
They harm us more, and harm more of us, than
All the violence
of meat shot on split beaver.

Have you given the Goddess your orgasm today?

I love all that is sexy of woman:
Lean Atalanta with streamlined hips and
vulnerable earlobes, poised for flight;
Earthmother, abundant with flesh --
tits and belly and ass --
tremendous thighs and
A clear brown eye stunning me with candor.
A decorated beauty with mascara on her cheek
arches her back and clenches her fists,
Eyes gleaming in the candle watching mine eager:
Her muscles bulge as she waits her pleasure,
Magnificent her pleasure.
Have you given the Goddess your orgasm today?

In six-inch too-spikey heels
I went to a party with too many men.
I was five-foot-ten and none of them
tripped over me:
I don't need to run when I can look them in
the eye.

When my new red hair blazes in the sun,
I am not trivial.

I will wear my Self large and shiny,
Loud and passionate like the idols of my youth:
Mae and Bessie and Tallulah --
Outraging women,
Not to be ignored.

Yes, I stand five-foot-teen in my six-inch heels,
My new red hair is blazing in the sun --
Oh my sisters,
Spare your judgments.
Give the Goddess your orgasm today.

-- Scarlet Woman

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Love,

Eddie

Monday, August 18, 2008

Monday Madness [National “Go Topless” Day]

¡Hola! Everybody…
I just noticed that I hardly ever visit the front page of my Multiply site. I apologize if you’ve left me a comment there and I haven’t responded. It’s just that I hardly ever go there. LOL!

The following is no prank, I met some of the women organizing the NYC portion of the event. The protest is to take simultaneously in major cities across the US. I gotta say I couldn't agree more. Read on...

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-=[ National “Go Topless” Day! ]=-
“As long as men can be topless, constitutionally women should have the same right, or men should also be forced to wear something hiding their chest.”
-- Rael


[Note: Events begin at noon in every city. Cities with events are listed below at the end of this post]

The following is taken from the Go Topless! website (click here to visit their site)

Welcome to Gotopless.org! - We are a US organization, claiming that women have the same constitutional right to be bare-chested in public places as men.

Rael, spiritual leader and founder of gotopless.org states: “As long as men can be topless, constitutionally women should have the same right, or men should also be forced to wear something hiding their chest.”

Why a National Go Topless Protest day? Gotopless.org claims constitutional equality between men and women on being topless in public. Currently, women who dare to be topless in public in the US are repeatedly being arrested, fined, humiliated, and criminalized. On Aug 23rd, 2008, topless women will rally in great numbers across the USA to protest this gross inequality in the law and will demand that they be granted the fundamental right to be topless where men already enjoy that right according to the 14th amendment of the Constitution (please see our exact legal argument on the right to be top-free for women under “14th amendment” at our website. click here)

Why this protest in August? In 1970, Congress designated August 26th as “Women’s Equality Day as a reminder of women’s continuing efforts for equality.” It is indeed on August 26, 1920, after a 72-year struggle, that the 19th Amendment to the Constitution of the U.S. was finally ratified, granting women the right to vote nationwide.

What will happen that day? Across America, topless women and men will peacefully rally in the streets, parks, on the beaches of their towns and cities. Activities will start at NOON local time in each city.

Top-free performances will be given by various artists to honor Women’s Equality Day and to convey how natural it is to be top-free for women in public just as it is for men. Please write to us if you are an artist who would like to participate in one of our shows.

Go Topless! is organizing major events everywhere --- starting time is NOON LOCAL TIME.

Participants in the Go Topless! event on August 23, 2008 are prohibited from engaging in any destructive or criminal conduct aside from the women's possible civil disobedience act of being topless in public.

Participating Cities:

LOS ANGELES: Venice Beach -- Where Navy Street meets the sand on the board walk

NEW YORK CITY: Central Park: Merchants Gate at Columbus Circle (59th Street at the corner of Central Park West and Central Park South), right by the giant Time Warner Mall

MIAMI: South Beach meeting time 12:30 PM -- 7th and Ocean Blvd across from News Cafe. Look for the topless women *grin*

CHICAGO: Lakefront (across from Buckingham Fountain)

HAWAII: Honolulu and Hilo Big island

AUSTIN, TX: Hippie Hollow Park

BERKELEY, CA

SANTA FE, NM

OMAHA NE: “Heartland of America Park” near Downtown Omaha, Nebraska, and the parking lot is between Capitol Ave, and Douglas St. on 8th St. a link to the map is as follows. http://maps.google.com/maps?source=ig&q=41.25859%2C-95.926609
(starting time is not noon but 3PM for Omaha.

BLOOMINGTON, IN: at the sample gates on campus at Kirkwood and Indiana

DENVER: (on Aug 26) at the door steps of the Presidential Democratic Convention.

If you would like to organize an event in your city or town, please contact us, we will be delighted to assist you so you too can claim your constitutional right to be topless in public as a woman.

[Note: I say if your city is not listed above, that’s a sign that you’re either dead, or close to it. Check your pulse or if you live a Stepford Wife life. *grin*]

Past Go Topless Actions/ Victories:

GOTOPLESS Interview on Playboy Radio (August 19th)

Janet Jackson's breast: The Nipplegate case. Recap of Janet Jackson's legal repercussions from her breast exposure during Superbowl 2004

June 04 2007, NYC pays $29,000 over topless arrest. Police seized bare-breasted artist despite court ruling allowing toplessness.

Breast feeding in public: law and social pressure. In the US, many women prefer not to breastfeed their baby because of the stigma of breastfeeding in public.

USA latest breastfeeding court case. Here are the latest incidences about breastfeeding in public in the leading democracy in the world in the 21st century.

There’s more at their website, check it out, it’s more interesting and relevant than you would think. For example, here’s a brief vid on NYC’s famous “Top Free Seven” the women who made it legal for women to go topless in NYC:

http://gotopless.org/index.php

Love,

Eddie