How to bang a 9 - 101

There are a select few of you who will know exactly what to do when it comes to banging women no matter what they rate on the beauty scale.  This post is a refresher not a primer for you.  Others, and you know who you are, need some instructions. 

First, it's all in the head... and no I don't mean your penis size.  Penis size is something men deal with and really I can't help you there.  If you have a rinky dinky minuscule member you're going to have to be very creative when it comes to pleasuring your female partner, because yes size matters to women.  I'm assuming you have hands and a mouth?  There's a whole industry which caters to 'tools of the trade', so no need to get your knickers in a knot about how big you're not.  That said I also think men have a distorted views of what normal is.  If you're watching porn most of you won't measure up.  (pun!)

Head means head space.  Roissy teaches head space and he does this by knocking females down a peg or two - taking us off the pedestal.  Many men wrongly interpret this to mean women are filthy dirty, gold digging, cheating skanks.  Wrong head space dudes.  You want to bang a 9 not choke her (okay fine but not with your hands).  You want to acknowledge her beauty but not be intimidated or pissed off by it.  You want her beauty to enhance the experience and this happens when you're in the right frame of mind.  Frame of mind?  Horny. 

How do you get this head space?  Know that she's a human being and has faults whether openly visible or not.  Know that she has issues with her body because girls are taught to from an early age. Know that she desires to be an object of your lust because every girl wants that, not because she expects it (even if she does). 

Have confidence with her.  Don't be tentative.  Don't ask permission, unless it's part of your seduction.  i.e. unbutton her shirt and ask permission, don't ask and wait for her response.  She may want to stop you, but she's wanting to be taken if you're that far along.  If she blows her rape whistle...ya, you've gone to far.  If a wanna be rapist is reading this - then you're socially clueless and a criminal and this is not meant to give you permission, moron.    For the rest of you sane people who've established rapport with the beauty make sure you have the upper hand.  Upper hand?  Direct the action.  If she starts to tear your clothes off (hey it happens), stop her.  Make her wait.  Hold her wrists and her sides perhaps.  Hold them there long enough for you to feel the tension leave her body and know she's listening.  Give her permission to undo a button at a time.  If you're wearing a t-shirt let her know when she can remove it.  Act like she's getting the goods, if she feels in any way you're shy about what's under your shirt it ruins it.  Even round men can get away with this, women are used to men thinking they're all that when they're not.  Besides it's all in your head remember?  You have to believe you're all that to even accomplish the deed satisfactorily with her. 

Head space accomplished.  Be creative.  Mix. Things. Up.  Don't stick to one position or pace.  Frequent changes make it last longer and gives you a 'feel' for what works best for arousal.  Prolong her pleasure.  Once a woman has been satisfied it's less interesting to her at least for the short term - she can be brought around - but there is a refraction period (even for multi-orgasmic women...just sayin').  So prolong it for her.  I know some of you are thinking but it TAKES FOREVER!  I think that's a failure on the foreplay part - your job is to get in her head.  A woman can be aroused much easier than you think.  Suggestive conversation, hints of debauchery ahead all can play with her mind.  Roissy suggests scaring her, I'm not a fan of the approach but hey give it a whirl. 

Some of you will have a chance to get with a 9 and not care if she enjoys it or not.  Chances are with a bit of that attitude she just might, meaning if it's ALL about her she won't be comfortable.  Mind you if your total pleasure means jumping on and riding her like a race horse, you might get off but your chances of riding her in the Kentucky Derby is  gone.  She's a thoroughbred treat her well.  (Bad analogy - eww)

(Don't I look smart in glasses!)