Movin on

Okay enough of alpha-ex. I suspect it will be a loooong time coming before I hear from that lad if ever. If my curiosity gets the best of me I may talk to him if he contacts me, but the way I feel now - ya not so much.

So I was building this great story about my older suitor. To catch people up he's 13years older, attractive, very intelligent (written, verbal), great story teller, great job and loves to travel. We've met and talked on the phone but the bulk of our conversations have been in email. I've been somewhat determined to see him again and he blocked me first for my age, then for the number of perceived suitors he thought I had. I was away on vacation when I last heard from him. Here is what he said:

Dearest Lady,
You have not been that naughty (he had threatened to spank me last email and I asked if I'd been that naughty)....however, I think I would still like to spank you. Why? Because I've never spanked a woman before and because it would give me an opportunity to view your bum (and I am a bum man).

The projected temp for Sat and Sun is 31 degrees. So I will need cooling off and a back massage (have a bad back)....and you are unavailable. Very sad and disappointing that you would desert me in a time of need (hehe).

I am annoyed with you....you are VERY DISTRACTING to me...and I need to address this problem. You are a Problem for me ....but not your fault....rather, my stupidity.

Can't wine you Wed night (the day I was getting back to town)....I'm gone all next week...won't be back until Sunday night (Aug 9).... I'll phone you Sun night if I get back early....otherwise I'll contact you on Monday.

Take Care Gorgeous Lady

I have not heard from him. Last Thursday the 13th I sent an email here is what I said:

So are you TRYING to make you chase you? Cuz I'm not wanting to particularly. It comes across as desperate or some such strategy that all the girl rules dating books advise against. Just sayin... ;)

So I got back last Wednesday, picked up my two dogs. And guess what?? I had, well not me, but my girl dog gave birth to EIGHT puppies less than 12 hours later. So you can guess what I've been doing? Watching puppies grow. Kind a cool, gotta admit.

So...ya that's all I gotz.

He hasn't read my email which is strange in and of itself. Soooo my man is MIA. Lovely just when I could use a real ego boost too.