Random ramblings

Here's a couple of random thoughts I have floating about in my head. Well perhaps not thoughts but things I wonder about. Looking for people to weigh in on what they think.

1. I get stared at by women more than men. For example when I'm at the gym it's women who check me out and stare. Why is that?

2. Can attraction build if you're not initially physically attracted? I'm liking the man I met last week - we've had two dates already. I think he might be a good fit for me. However...am not attracted to his 'look'. He dresses okay, it's more his build. Just slightly taller than I am and slender (he's a runner). He is balding. And he wouldn't fall into ugly territory but certainly not handsome. I wouldn't have turned my head if I'd seen him on the street so to speak. Can physical attraction grow?

I want to point out that looks are not the be all and end all to me, and I have felt sparks for men who aren't traditionally attractive, however it's usually because they have an intense/extroverted nature and win me over by personality. This man has similar interests to me but is not intense. Perhaps this is a good sign?

Feel free to tell me I'm a shallow bitch (Default). heh

The pic is of my very famous dogs and I'm loath to post them for fear of discovery. The pic is old by a few months and the lil one has changed so much he's barely recognizable - I think I'm safe.