Friday, October 16, 2009

Girlie Talk


Girls, women, chicks all like to talk about things, stuff, shopping. Last week while out on a girlie discussion my girl group decided to take a whole hour to discuss me, myself and moi. They dissected my dating and relationship history in fine, minute detail. They remembered more dates and boyfriends than I remembered so good was their memory.

Later in the week I heard separately from individuals in the girl group (of the non-famous variety) and they asked me if I'd been offended or hurt by their intense scrutiny.

I wasn't in the least.

They'd nailed it flat.

As in...

Figured me out.

It was kind of comforting to know my friends knew so much about me and could identify the why's and how's of my failures in relationship. I wasn't shocked by one thing they'd said, I'd already reached the conclusions myself for the most part. Nah - for the whole part.

How great to have friends that can tell you the truth and yet care enough to wonder if they've hurt you.

I'm a lucky duck.

The pics were taken tonight. I'm in week 2 of recovery from the re-sculpted chiny chin chin. Swelling still present especially in the jowl area but I'm beginning to see that there will be a difference.

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