Never content to just let things sit for a bit I decided to write Mr. 13 years older one more time. He said he was confused about me. I decided perhaps to clear up a few things for him.
Here's the gist of it (ok it's a cut and paste so its the whole of it):
I don't know if the following will clear confusion or create it.
About me:
I want to find a mate who is older than I am. I feel this pairing combo older man/younger woman is much more successful for longer term relationships. I think part of the reason is evolutionary biology. A man is drawn to youth by his nature - it's a fertility thing. I know much younger women than me draw your eye but the likelihood of a successful pairing is lowered because she'll be too young for commonalities. I hope my relative youth would be attractive to you as far as appearances go. I want to also add that I feel men in my age category SHOULD be looking at younger women and if they're not then it's because they can't get them (therefor why would I want them?)
I want to find a man who is a man. One who knows how to lead and who is sure of himself. I saw this in you the first night we met. I think men want a woman to be devoted to him and women want men who will lead them. I think its innate and I think too many women today have over-ridden their natural desires in the name of feminism. I can lead at work, but in my personal life I'm looking for great discussion, debate but in the end there is only one person who makes the final decision - the man. I get the feeling you would get that.
I want a man who would challenge my mind. I'm smart and that can be a curse when you're looking for a man to push you. Not many have been able to intrigue me. You did.
You may be questioning my motive, I might too if I were in your shoes. The above may come of as flaky or weird. I assure you I'm neither. In any event I hoped it answered some of your questions. I'm very open to discussion on any topic so feel free to ask away. :)
I will write his interesting response tomorrow.
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