He said, She said

A range of emotions - maybe a roller coaster - nah that's a little extreme - but definitely a range.

I heard again from Mr. 13 years older. Wow! This has been something else - I can only hope it ends well.

So to refresh you I said:

Hi,

Writing is such a funny medium to communicate in. After I sent my email (lamenting the lack of contact) I realized it might come off as all whiny. I'm anything but and was actually trying to be cute and a teeny bit funny. But you never know how someone who doesn't know you all that well will read it.

As for next week - looks good, but the two weeks after that I'm in (enter holiday destination zone) for holiday - whoot! I need a break in the BIGGEST way. (not intended to read as stress-case crazy chick)

Are you trying out other ladies before deciding I'm the best choice?? Your prerogative of course - but you know already - heh heh. :)


Then he replied:

You are correct. What is important in communication is your body language, tone of voice and your words. Words are the least important. That is why face-to-face communication is the best; written only has the words (which can be misinterpretd as the average english word has 8 meanings).

Lucky you....(enter destination I'm headed to) is one of my favourite places. Do you have friends there? Maybe you should take me (hehe).

That is a funny expression you used..."am I trying out other ladies". It sounds like I'm having sexual encounters to determine who is the best lover.....sounds OK to me!

I think you are a SUPER woman....but I still believe I'm too old for you and that you want a stable of guys to entertain you / date. And there is certainly nothing wrong with your attitude. Get the BEST.

Then I said:

You are very mistaken about my desires. I DO NOT want a stable of men to date - in fact have not had a date in two weeks since you emailed me back. I kind of know what I like and when I know I'm kind of purposeful. Oh gawd now it sounds like I'm stalking you.

Sexual experimentation with others huh...yes typical male talk. lol

I'm getting mixed signals from you. First you say you're too old, then you say no age is just a number you don't act your age, you say I'm looking to date en masse, you say you want to take me away for a weekend, then you want my email, then you don't email, when i continue to chase you again say you're too old...

I contacted you, I'm interested in you, but am now feeling silly for continuing this - I don't think you have me figured out and I don't think you're all that interested in trying to. Too bad really - I'm not going to beg - pathetic at best.

And he said:

You are Right - Wrong - Right - Wrong

Right - I probably am mistaken about your desires....maybe you don't want to date a bunch of men. I really don't know you after one meeting. And....you are not stalking me!

Wrong - I'm not interested in sexual experimentation. Sex can be wonderful and very enjoyable with someone if there is the feelings. Random sex or one nighters is not for me.

Right - you probably are getting mixed signals from me. Why? Because you are confusing to me. I have not figured you out....and I'm very good at that. I do think about you.

Wrong - Don't feel silly about it - why would you? And I am interested in trying to figure you out. And you are not begging....I don't know why you would think or say that.

I am confused about you....and I need to sort this out before I see you.....but I will!

And finally I said:

Fair enough! :)

I'll wait.